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Mr. Duck attacks!

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And he's out of the water
And he’s out of the water
Heading for us
Heading for us
Getting closer
Getting closer
Almost on us
Almost on us
Still running
Still running
Evil eye and feather's rustled
Evil eye and feather’s rustled
Stopped to pose
Stopping for a pose
Turning for Austin
Turning for Austin
One last warning from the water
One last warning from the water
The family
The family

Our fishing outing on the bank had a bit of a twist to it today–

Thanks Mr. Duck for the great pictures!

Roosevelt State Park, Mississippi

Gator Country

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Last weekend while leaving our home state of Texas, Austin and I made one last had-to stop in Beaumont.  Owned by conservationist Gary Saurage, Gator Country is an alligator rescue facility in the East Texas bayou country.  With over 300 live alligators, plus many other reptiles and animals, the facility is touted as the “premier alligator wildlife park in Texas.”  Saurage has been featured on CMT, Animal Planet, Bravo and A&E, as well as international documentaries.  Currently he can be seen guest starring with Billy the Exterminator on A&E.

While there we enjoyed the ability to touch and pet alligators, tortoises, a raccoon, and a large albino boa named Banana.  And although the facility is on winter schedule, Gary himself joined in our group and made sure our experience was both exciting and educational.

This is a great stop for kids of all ages.  There is a full playground for the children to let loose, and activities for adults and children including fun interactive educational shows.

For more information on visiting Gator Country: http://gatorrescue.com/

The Pelican State

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There’s something about being in the Deep South for such an important national holiday as the celebration of Martin Luther King, Jr.’s birthday.  Fortunately for me, the service at The Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, was one of progress, enlightenment and growth amongst adversity.

The sermon centered on a scene from “In the Heat of the Night,” in which Chief Gillespie (Carroll O’Conner) finds himself struggling with his own institutionalized racial discrimination.  Walking into his office, Gillespie finds his newly appointed African American Chief of Detectives, Virgil Tibbs (Howard E. Rollins, Jr.)  hammering a nail into the wall to hang a picture.  Innocent enough until he realizes that the picture Tibbs is hanging is that of Martin Luther King, Jr.  After suggesting that Tibbs replace it with something ‘more personal’ like a ‘desktop photo’ that can be whisked away into a drawer, he in turn finds himself attempting to defend a much larger portrait above his own desk (which appeared to be a portrait of General Robert E. Lee), only finding within himself the response, “It came with the office.”  A small scene, but such a powerful testament to those that practice life by keeping the status quo regardless of how those practices affect the lives of others.

The Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge
The Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge with proud display of its symbolic circular window

The sermon was not just one of history, but of the difficulties of overcoming racial degradation in modern America.  As the Rev. Steve J. Crump, Senior Minister, expressed the pride of sharing the second inauguration day of President Obama–a monumental event in modern history–he also shared the struggles of today’s Baton Rouge, a city with a higher murder rate than Chicago and only second to Atlanta for HIV cases.  A city where the average age of those murdered is at a mere 26-years-old, and of those committing the murders at an even younger 22-years-old.

Although laced with the importance of our continuing fight, the service also celebrated modern progression and reminded all Unitarians of our own role in the advancement of social justice and racial equality.  There were beautiful voices raised by the church’s own Marie Flowers and Seynabou Diack, and a poignant dance presentation by the LSU MLK Dance Ensemble.  All framed by the sanctuary’s large circle window inspired by an Edwin Markham poem stating, “They drew a circle and shut me out,  A heretic, a rebel, a thing to flout.  But love and I had the wit to win,  We drew a circle and took them in.”  So perfect an homage to this church and the wonderful members and staff that I had the privilege of meeting!

For more information on attending The Unitarian Church of Baton Rouge: http://www.unitarianchurchbr.com/

To enjoy the works of Edwin Markham, visit: http://www.poetryfoundation.org/bio/edwin-markham

Link to a previous performance by the LSU MLK Dance Ensemble at the Unitarian Church, 2009: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36TmQ51eCCU

The Lone Star State

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Texas!   Back to my home state but still so far from home!  Today Austin and I attended the First Unitarian Church of Dallas in none other than the Lone Star State.  Although the church community began there over 100 years ago, the current Frank Lloyd Wright-esque sanctuary is an homage to fluid space and shared community.  The architect, Harwell Hamilton Harris, truly designed what he described as “a clearing in the forest,” all completed with a dominant burning chalice guiding attendees to the peace within the space.

Led by Senior Minister, Rev. Dr. Daniel Kanter, today’s service was one honoring the church’s “UU of the Year” for service and deeds completed within the church community (and in the greater Dallas community at-large), followed by a sermon titled, “Too Christian, Not Christian Enough.”  Dr. Kanter well expressed the historical ties to Unitarianism, but also to those that led to the path of his suggested true labeling as a “Free Church.”  One that is neither too Christian, nor Christian enough, in that so it is perfectly balanced without confines to secular and non-secular labeling alike.  A place where Christians and Atheists commingle in celebration of diversity and compassion.  A place where all whom support and commit to the seven UU Principles can live, learn, and love without judgment or inequity.

First Unitarian Church of Dallas Sanctuary(Photo from www.dallasuu.org)
First Unitarian Church of Dallas Sanctuary
(Photo from http://www.dallasuu.org)

Stirring the passion was music provided by “emma’s revolution,” a fun and modernly folksy duo of Sandy O. and Pat Humphries.  Austin and I both especially loved their song, “Peace, Salaam, Shalom,” written in response to reactions to the attacks on 9/11.

If you live in the Dallas area and would like to attend First Unitarian, you can find information about their services and events at www.dallasuu.org.  Be sure to take time to explore the campus and have coffee with the UUs attending there.  They will be glad to welcome you!

From the First Unitarian website, “As the largest liberal religious congregation in Dallas and one of the largest Unitarian Universalist congregations in the country, our history lives on today. We remain a progressive oasis in Dallas; a harbor for lost and wandering people without a compass for their religious natures; a place to read, discuss and move against tyrannies of the mind, heart and body; a treasure of wisdom and strength for our children; a community within which to weather the difficult times and celebrate the joyous times of life; and a voice of reason and challenge in an increasingly conservative religious landscape.”

Our lava bed backyard tonight!

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Our campsite view!  Valley of Fires National Park, New Mexico
Our campsite view! Valley of Fires National Park, New Mexico

The Land of Enchantment

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Today we are in beautiful New Mexico!  The first state of our year-long journey on the road.  Although we have traveled within her borders many times, it’s always a new and exciting experience driving through the desert river valley of the Rio Grande as the mountains guide us north.

Picture from the First Unitarian Church of Albuquerque Order of Service, January 6, 2013
Picture from the First Unitarian Church of Albuquerque Order of Service, January 6, 2013

This morning Austin and I attended the First Unitarian Church of Albuquerque, led by Rev. Christine Robinson.  The church has 785 members, including three branches in Carlsbad, East Mountains, and Socorro.  With it’s community growing in size, First Unitarian is in the midst of building a new, larger sanctuary, as even attending on this cold winter day I found the existing sanctuary full to the brim with fellow UUs.  This was only one of three Sunday services held at the Albuquerque sanctuary each Sunday, and did not include children from the Religious Education (RE) classes which Austin attended.

Rev. Robinson’s message was a popular, annual “Obituary” service, honoring with esteem (and much friendly humor!) selected people from our world that passed during the year 2012.  Along with uplifting and inviting music and song by the church band, Spare Parts, and a familiar singing of “Spirit of Life,” the community provided a warm, meditative, and inspiring contemporary service.

If you live within the reaches of First Unitarian and would like to attend, you can find information on their upcoming services, events, and locations at www.uuabq.org or by calling (505) 884-1801.

The Fates have finally eased up!

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It’s been two weeks with an ER visit, broken window woes, and a winter storm from Mother Nature.  But now we are finally getting back on track and back on the road.

New Year’s day was to be our ‘send off’ day, but Austin had a bad cold that got so severe that we ended up spending the day at the William Beaumont Army Medical Center Emergency Room.  He still has a cough, but I finally let him break out of our tiny camper for some errands today with me after a week of being couped up.

In November we had a broken dinette window.  That was a fun one!  I went to open the window the day before Thanksgiving and just as I slid it about three inches out it shattered.  The glass company came about a week later, and now, after two previous misfits, they finally installed a properly fitted working window today.  (Yes, that’s right, over a month later!)

The first El Paso snow in 2013
The first El Paso snow in 2013

In the meantime, between the ER visit and the window being installed, Mother Nature picked the perfect timing to send us our first winter snow here in El Paso.  Of course, so rare is the snow and ice here that the roads are never cleared and the drivers are without enough practice.  The main juncture here, affectionately called the “Spaghetti Bowl” has steep and twisting angles not meant for days without sunshine.

But today we find ourselves ready to roll.  We’ve gotten things organized and stored and squirreled away, ready for travel.  Austin keeps talking about tomorrow like it’s Christmas all over again and even the dog is looking at me like he truly understands our imminent departure.

One last dinner at Chico’s Tacos, one last glimpse of our beautiful snow covered mountains, and one last drive west out of our city for 2013.  Our journey has begun!

Christmas in our mini

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It seems impossible to believe that Christmas is nearly here.  Our space is small and we’ve done what little we could to decorate our tiny 2′ tall Norfolk Island Pine that sits on our dinette table.  (Our only table!)  No huge light strands or outside decorations because we’ve nowhere to store them once the season is over.  The tree is live:  good for Mother Earth and good for our space as it will make a beautiful present to a friend once we are ready to leave on New Year’s Day.  Austin has a stocking hanging from one of the overhead cabinet knobs and our Christmas cards are taped to the refrigerator.

Our mini tree
Our mini tree

What’s really difficult is gift giving when living in a small space.  Every item purchased must be very carefully thought out.  Where will it be stored when moving so that it doesn’t learn how to fly?  Is there space for it to be used?  Does it require electricity or to plug in to the TV?  Will it actually get used enough to consider a place for it in our tiny, 168 square foot home?

It’s a true test of necessity and desire.  The fine balance between what you have to make space for and what you, for no true reason, can’t live without.  Items like laptops and Legos, what is our top priority?  What do we move or eliminate to make room for the new?

Luckily the grandparents sent gift cards this year.  Always difficult when you receive something that has to be returned, re-gifted or left in a storage room.  Of course, our ‘house’ is in a storage room, a POD full of furniture, treasured items, and things we can live without but truly want back one day when we once again move into a sticks-and-bricks home.

But for now we’re enjoying the freedom of not being attached to so many things.  There’s a box full of presents in the camper ‘basement’ storage, and tomorrow night I’ll clear the dinette to make room for their delivery.  Once unwrapped, unboxed, and the games are removed from their sleeves, they will take very little from our space, but despite their size, they are guaranteed to make a little boy a very happy one come Christmas morning!

Hey you, over there, even you are welcome here!

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“Whatever the faiths you have known or the flags of your heritage, you are welcome here.  Whoever you are and whomever you love, you are welcome here.  Whether you ran in here today on little feet, or walked briskly, or ambled in, or rolled in, you are welcome here.” 

(UUCEP Worship Associate Script)

Above are some of the first words you will hear when attending a Sunday Service at the UU Community of El Paso.  They are truly heartfelt by those among us.

Ours is a faith of acceptance and each one of these words can be taken in the most literal sense.  Whomever you are, no matter your background,  you are welcome without regard to race, class, national origin, physical or mental ability, sexual orientation, or gender identity/expression.

UUCEP
Unitarian Universalist Community of El Paso

Unfortunately, many are in search of our faith without realizing it even exists!  If you would like a more liberal, educational, and accepting faith environment, visit a UU community this Sunday.  If you’re unsure where your beliefs lie, a great way to get help is to take the “Belief-O-Matic” quiz at Belief Net: http://www.beliefnet.com/Entertainment/Quizzes/BeliefOMatic.aspx  It is a truly fun and enlightening quiz that can both affirm your chosen faith, or show you a new path to spiritual exploration.

As a creedless faith, UU’s rely on the support and acceptance by our members of our 7 Principles:

Our 7 Principles

1. The inherent worth and dignity of every person

2. Justice, equity, and compassion in human relations

3. Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations

4. A free and responsible search for truth and meaning

5. The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large

6. The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all

7. Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part of

As I go on my 2013 pilgrimage, I hope to bring the meanings of these words to heart and to share.  It’s simple to list words as they come–simple to list the principles.  But what I hope to convey is the emotion behind the words and more importantly, the belonging to the words that come with our faith.

To learn more about Unitarian Universalism, or to find a community near you, please visit: www.uua.org or click on the chalice in the right-hand column of my blog.  If you are unable or unwilling to attend a physical location, you can explore UU’ism through the Church of the Larger Fellowship: http://www.questformeaning.org/

For more information on the UU Community of El Paso, visit: www.uuelpaso.org

Homeland cuisine

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Although Texas is known for its steaks and chili, here in the borderland we have the ultimate in border Mexican cuisine.  Anything from the simple to the gourmet, the chiles and the tortillas never tasted better than those from the heart of El Paso.

Chicos TacosWhile some El Pasoans will argue the worth of some of the foods I love, it’s like a calling when coming back home.  Australians have their vegemite, Scots have their haggis, and El Pasoans have our own Chico’s Tacos made infamous by “Fluffy” (comedian Gabriel Iglesias), and all of us who grew up with late night visits after Friday high school football and crashing quinceaneras.  Chico’s Tacos are the tacos that are really flautas drowned in tomato water, drenched in a hot green chile salsa, and covered in an un-meltable shredded cheese.  And did I say nearly impossible to eat?  While some use the fork-tong method to temporarily hold them above the paper tray and attempt neatness while eating, many of us just grab the thing and damn with the mess.  Honestly, aren’t some of the best tasting foods the messiest to eat?  (Ever had a Whopper that didn’t drip?  What a disappointment!)

My other favorite El Paso landmark restaurant is Kiki’s, made famous by locals and multiple Kikisawards and appearances on the Food Network channel.  Every Sunday afternoon following church you will find my son Austin and me enjoying a perfect specimen of borderland food there.  Known for it’s machacas, which are amazing, this restaurant doesn’t fail on any of it’s menu.  When not splurging, I enjoy just a simple green cheese enchilada, my favorite of all foods.  Enchiladas are also my test food anytime I try a new restaurant.  Hell, if they can’t get the basics in tortillas with chiles, sauces, and cheeses, then you won’t find me returning for a second go.

I love my border Mexican so much that I took it with me on my last trip.  Loaded up on frozen tacos and enchiladas, I pulled them out and shared them with friends and family unfortunate enough to live back East, far away from our desert paradise.

And now I face their dilemma, a full-year without my favorites.  Dry ice and FedEx anyone?

If you ever have the fortune of visiting El Paso, use the links below to find my favorites:

Kiki’s Restaurant http://www.kikisrestaurant.com/

Chico’s Tacos locations http://www.yellowpages.com/el-paso-tx/chicos-tacos (Bring cash, Chico’s does not accept credit cards)